If you are
a parent, or for that matter, if you have ever been to a Walmart store on a
Saturday afternoon, you have witnessed the tantrum that emerges after a child
doesn’t get his own way. It’s pretty
ugly. It’s annoying to everyone in
proximity, and it brings out the worst in most of the parents I know. Well, there’s only one thing worse than a
child throwing a fit when he doesn’t get her own way, and that’s an adult doing
the same thing. I found a passage of
scripture which addresses the same issue.
1 Peter 4,
verses 1-2, says “Since Jesus went through everything you’re going through and
more, learn to think like him. Think of
your sufferings as a weaning from that old sinful habit of always expecting to
get your own way. Then you’ll be able to
live out your days free to pursue what God wants instead of being tyrannized by
what you want.”
The point
here is that God’s decision not to purge from our lives all of the difficulties
we go through actually brings about maturity in us. We would be much like a spoiled child if we
got everything we asked for and never had to face a difficulty. Facing the trouble actually help us
grow. I’m reminded of a scene from one
of the Chronicles of Narnia movies that have been released in the past few
years. Peter, a young king, finds himself
in a fight with two wolves that are intent on killing him. He calls for help, and Aslan (the Christ
figure of the movie) comes to assist. He
puts one wolf to flight, but when one of his warriors moves in to kill the
second wolf, Aslan tells him to hold off; this one is Peter’s. Peter steps up to the plate and hits one out
of the park, stepping into his destiny as a warrior king.
In our
lives, the old sinful habit of thinking that we should always get what we want
needs to be dethroned, allowing the new King Jesus to take his rightful
place. When we endure things we would
rather not, we start the process of killing off that old sinful way of thinking
that allow Christ access to transform us into who he wants us to be. Doing so brings maturity and a better quality
of life. So whatever you are wresting
with today, allow God to use it as the weight on the bar that you are lifting
which will produce spiritual muscle and give you the physique of a fully developed
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